One cannot present a fair picture of heterosexuality without acknowledging the advantage for women who respond during sex by appearing to be sexually aroused.Men have no idea just how embarrassing this situation is for women.Plenty of women (and men) figure out that the portrayal of women's sexuality is manipulated by individuals who capitalise on the advantage that sex provides.They accept the misrepresentation because the problem is so enormous as to be not worth the fight.No one seems to appreciate how rare it is for a woman to tell it the way it truly is.It takes extraordinary moral courage to stand up to the intimidation and to persevere with reasoned arguments when one is faced with the emotional beliefs of others.Especially when men appear to be incapable of acknowledging the inherent pressure they put on women by refusing to accept that women are not aroused as they are.The truth is that in many heterosexual relationships as long as the man believes that female orgasm occurs then his satisfaction is achieved.The woman may also be more content if she believes that female orgasm has occurred.If a couple is happy with what they have (their expectations are met) then, by definition, there is no problem.Whether female orgasm is actually possible during sex is another matter.Women's orgasm claims contradict their lack of appreciation of eroticism and their lack of understanding of how adults can enjoy arousal and orgasm through masturbation.Sex is portrayed as mutually pleasurable with the unspoken premise that women have sex, just as men do, in order to enjoy orgasm.No one acknowledges that a woman is obliged to provide some response to love-making for her partner's sake.Men's sexuality is relatively straightforward.They see an attractive woman, they get an erection and they want the kind of sex that leads to reproduction - all very logical.Women's orgasmic ability is not driven by reproductive biology.So there is no reason for women to be sexually attracted to men's bodies, no reason for them to become aroused and no reason for them to orgasm with a partner.A woman can get pregnant without ever having an orgasm.So female orgasm is simply an optional pleasure.Men are motivated by sex because either they are already aroused or they can easily become aroused with a partner.It is men's arousal that causes them to initiate sex.A person's drive to orgasmis reflected in how frequently they masturbate and the effort they invest in exploring their fantasies through erotica and pornography.Women have to make a much more CONSCIOUS decision to take an interest in eroticism (if any) and to explore their sexuality (or not).Some women discover masturbation through simple curiosity.It is almost a matter of chance that a woman discovers masturbation.Equally there is every reason for a woman to decide not to do such a thing.Never discovering orgasm is not a sign of female sexual dysfunction.
Sunday, September 2, 2012
Women's Sexual Motivation and Understanding Sexual Politics of Heterosexual Society
One cannot present a fair picture of heterosexuality without acknowledging the advantage for women who respond during sex by appearing to be sexually aroused.Men have no idea just how embarrassing this situation is for women.Plenty of women (and men) figure out that the portrayal of women's sexuality is manipulated by individuals who capitalise on the advantage that sex provides.They accept the misrepresentation because the problem is so enormous as to be not worth the fight.No one seems to appreciate how rare it is for a woman to tell it the way it truly is.It takes extraordinary moral courage to stand up to the intimidation and to persevere with reasoned arguments when one is faced with the emotional beliefs of others.Especially when men appear to be incapable of acknowledging the inherent pressure they put on women by refusing to accept that women are not aroused as they are.The truth is that in many heterosexual relationships as long as the man believes that female orgasm occurs then his satisfaction is achieved.The woman may also be more content if she believes that female orgasm has occurred.If a couple is happy with what they have (their expectations are met) then, by definition, there is no problem.Whether female orgasm is actually possible during sex is another matter.Women's orgasm claims contradict their lack of appreciation of eroticism and their lack of understanding of how adults can enjoy arousal and orgasm through masturbation.Sex is portrayed as mutually pleasurable with the unspoken premise that women have sex, just as men do, in order to enjoy orgasm.No one acknowledges that a woman is obliged to provide some response to love-making for her partner's sake.Men's sexuality is relatively straightforward.They see an attractive woman, they get an erection and they want the kind of sex that leads to reproduction - all very logical.Women's orgasmic ability is not driven by reproductive biology.So there is no reason for women to be sexually attracted to men's bodies, no reason for them to become aroused and no reason for them to orgasm with a partner.A woman can get pregnant without ever having an orgasm.So female orgasm is simply an optional pleasure.Men are motivated by sex because either they are already aroused or they can easily become aroused with a partner.It is men's arousal that causes them to initiate sex.A person's drive to orgasmis reflected in how frequently they masturbate and the effort they invest in exploring their fantasies through erotica and pornography.Women have to make a much more CONSCIOUS decision to take an interest in eroticism (if any) and to explore their sexuality (or not).Some women discover masturbation through simple curiosity.It is almost a matter of chance that a woman discovers masturbation.Equally there is every reason for a woman to decide not to do such a thing.Never discovering orgasm is not a sign of female sexual dysfunction.
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